Anyone else feel that now is just surreal or that waking up and everything will go away? The world as we knew it is that world no longer and 2020 seems like the longest year ever; people are scrambling over basic necessities and so much has closed or moved remotely as we all work to try and prevent the spread of corona virus. There is no doubt it is devastating, sad and uncertain with no definitive end date in sight. From my experience, it has really shown people’s true character; the good, the bad and the ugly. We have all lost some basic aspects of living that truly make life worth living; freedom, choice, safety to name just a few.
In times like this where we have no choice, we do have a choice on how we approach with our internal homes; our minds. We can choose to say ‘yes’ to the situation or we can choose to say ‘no’. Your mental approach to this is everything, it is happening regardless of your decision to accept or ignore it. Saying ‘yes’ does not mean you think it’s okay, nor does it mean you have to be Polly positivity all the time, but it does mean you think proactively, with your own mental health at the core.
Self-employed/small businesses are suffering, both with immediate closure and utmost uncertainty ahead. If you can support, do so. I have re-hired my dog trainer, Toast is going to learn some new tricks! As I told Toast, he sponges off me, so may as well entertain me with cute things! Also, what a refreshing break from the news to be focused on teaching a pooch something new.
Social distancing has meant I have seen fewer and fewer friends, however I have never had more personal phone calls. It really has made me value the impact of a phone call with them over just texting. That is something I will continue after this.
My job has moved to being fully remote, which my dog thinks is just heaven. I personally miss the social interaction and office banter, so now setting up scheduled coffee Skypes in the work day with any talk of parasites banned. I want to hear about the little things in people’s day, it is always the little things that bring joy, now is the time to cherish more than ever.
Ordinarily, the gym is a huge stress reliever for me; I not only get a rush of endorphins, but a physical change in scenery and the luxury of being surrounded by like-minded people. Gyms are closed until May. Okay, so now I can’t add pounds to my squat, but I can rally together with other people to gather equipment and still workout everyday. Maybe now is a good time to get lean?
Other things to remember are that not everything has changed. The weather is still the same. Your home is no different (just maybe cleaner and more organized). Your pet still thinks you are the best thing ever. Your children will still say ridiculous things that make you smile. Your partner will still put the dishcloth in a place that bugs you. It is now judgement-free zone on binge watching Netflix or ordering take-out just because.
It is uncertain, but let’s say ‘yes’ to this. Say ‘yes’ for the good of yourself, friends, family, community and, at this point, the world. We got this.
-Benchpressingbaubles, x